
Whether in the office, meetings or gatherings, invariably related to interpersonal communication, eloquence is not innate, but also acquired training.
Improving eloquence can improve the daily life of interpersonal communication skills, family, friends, work and social circles, both beneficial and therefore not limited to commercial areas or any industry.
Eloquence consists of the following three major elements:
(1) tone of voice - that is, the use of stress and high-bass, resulting in talk cadence effect. Different voice tones resulting in different politeness.
(2) body language - people will pay attention to receive information from different body language, in which speaking only 7%, tone 38%, while body language accounts for 55% which is the largest number. In face to face communication, the recipient will pay attention to expression, eyes, smile, hand movements, foot movements, standing posture and other body language, and then decide whether the consortium will be trusted。
(3) organizational ability - sometimes, do you find a topic boring when just saying one or two sentences? Eloquence and complementary thinking cannot be separated. Thinking makes speaking logical, with content and organization to allow the recipient to understand. Thinking can widen the idea and topic deeply.
Ways to improve eloquence - always read eloquence training books and video discs, try reading scripts, use video recorders or video cameras to record, review your own body language and observe the mistakes. More research of others' speeches, such as participation in seminars or product introductions, community centre's parent-child lectures; to learn how speakers prepare a speech and answer questions. Avoid staying in front of a computer all day, be more initiative to communicate with family and friends, and even volunteer to try to be the master of ceremonies in a company's acitivities, read more books or newspapers; in order to deepen your topic.

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